"hello I think you are possibly a person I could like to know, and I have no idea what to say to you unless you get me started about harps in which case I will talk your ear off with any encouragement at all, because that is a thing I know how to talk about and that I love, but then after that I am back to awkward"

I've been feeling this a lot recently (though with books instead of harps) and so I love the way you've expressed that feeling here.

I'm also feeling that gap.

So thank you so much for sharing this.